More meaning in you your life, better understand of others, a way to a better world, being listened to.
Benefits include:
~ learning to make yourself heard.
RCS
A new kind of dialogue. A dialogue for peace. A dialogue for meaning and understanding. A dialogue for thinking together. An exposition of dialogue group and dialogue practice. This is an ongoing blog with posts added often. The blog is searchable in several ways. This blog is meant to be an interactive experience.
RCS
This whole blog is much about group dialogue practice and this is more on that same theme. Dialogue of this sort is often called social dialogue. Social dialogue has been called a pillar of social resiliance and cohesion. It makes our co-operation more powerfully effective. It may be that which makes human and humane co-operation possible. Using language is a marvel of humanity. By the time you have read a dozen of these little essays, you will have provided yourself the ability to recognize a successful dialogue group and know much of the reasons why it is successful.
Hints:
~In the very beginning it helps to have at least 6 or 7 interested persons committed to three or four consecutive meetings. This could be called your pilot group. Forty practicants is too many for most well working groups.
~ During practice one person addresses the group as a whole and avoids directing her words to only a few persons at a time.
~ The practice is mostly a listening practice with one person speaking and the rest listening. Even so, all intened to make sure that every one has an equal opportunity to speak.
~ Remember that the speaker is most likely doing his best to be honest and to make his words understood.
~ Avoid interrupting another. You will have your chance to speak and other times to listen. The dialogue continues so that there is more oppertunity to understand and to be understood. If a speaker is interrupted several listeners may be interrupted and so the effectiveness of the practice may be damaged.
~ Keep expenses to a minimum. Everyone helps take care of necessary expenses, Do your part as you are able to.
~ Listen well to that which the speaker is saying. Improved understanding is an aimof your group.
~ Practice listening wel and gain more powerful listening and understanding skills.
~ Encourage each and every one to use their opportunity to say something at each meeting. Their words and yours are gifts to each of us.
~ Usually limit speaking to one or two minutes. It is great to have time to speak more than once at a meeting.
~ Rememvber that focusing dialogue on the topic and on personal experience is good practice.
The hints offered here can be useful for keeping the practice pleasant and effective, but are far from all inclusive or comprehensive. There is much more offered in other posts on this blog. Consider beginning a practice group of your own, if you have not already done so.
Thank you for your visit and for reading.
rcs
RCS Posts dialogue including: A bit of a definition of our usefully different kind of dialogue.
I write about a new kind of dialogue. It is mostly for groups of as small as 9 to groups of about 39.
Below are some descriptive notes about what is, and what it is not. See other posts on the benefits of this more productive and satisfying way to communicate. It can work wonders with your husband and has been successful in some very large groups.
~ place to make a particular point prevail.
~ debate or even a discussion.
~ time to attempt to make points.
~ game to win or lose.
~ meaning and understanding.
~ an activity which helps us to be us.
~ through the meaning of word.
~ an honest, supportive activity.
~ greater awareness and enhanced consciousness.
~ hone your listening skills.
~ develop new speaking skills.
~ effective methods of communication.
~ cultural preservation and creation.
~ make a healthy, effective society more probable.
~ meet interested people in an interesting environment.
~ put honest thoughts "on the table" where we can look at them and begin to find their meaning.
~ be heard.
~ find pleasure in speaking-up.
~ understanding among us and within us.
~ satisfying relationship.
~ exchange idea and opinion more safely.
~ share experience.
~ more effective communication beyond the group.
~ practice a "second" language.
~ peace and good will.
~ to see our words as gifts.
~ participating in a flow of meaning between us, through us, and among us.
~ an activity out of which emerges new and renewed understanding.
~ an activity which helps us to be an us.
Could you find a way to practice a dialogue of this sort? Could you practice a dialogue more of this sort in your group?
You can open a window below to make a comment, a suggestion, and ask a question. You might have to click on where where "no comment" is printed below.
Thanks for reading.
Now comments are needed.
RCS
For readers who are not familiar with the many search options available to them here, I will begin to review some of them.
It seems that blogs are so out of fashion that few remember how they may be fashioned. For example this blog is of three columns. I have used the central column as the place up to 400 essays or posts.
An
important function of the columns to the left and right of the central
column is to offer you apps to help you find the essays which interest
you. They are largely made up of search apps. However, they also contain
other helpful apps.
Let me begin with the column to your left on the main view of the page. On all of my blogs the this left hand column begins with the app which allows you to select the language in which to choose to read the post you select.
Other apps you will find in this column may have a different order on each of the associated blogs. For example the next app might be "Associated Blog Sites to visit." To be transported to the one which interests you and be transported to it. The next app may be "Popular Posts." There you can find the names of up to four posts others have been finding interesting. Each name will be follow by a few words about it. click on that name and that post will appear. Next you may come to a title that reads "Pages." Click on one of the listings there and be taken to another page where you can find posts much like this one or different.
The last listing in this column will usually be "Blog Archive." This can be a very useful app for you. Use it to become familiar with the essays and other posts available on this blog site. You will see a list of years and months. Click on one and you will taken to all of the posts published in that period. All are interesting and usually contain some hard to find YouTube videos which YouTube allows me to show.
The right hand column usually begins with a search app, perhaps with the title "Search This Site." There is a little window in which you may enter a word or phrase and then click on the word "Search." Try it and see what happens.
I will leave this little post here for a few weeks and then move it to "Pages." You are now on the home page.
This is a good place from which to comment.
rcs